single dots

2023, september 21

message to a friend.

you asked me why u. never holds grudges. how does she manage to let go of fights and hurt feelings? i think the difference between u. and people who hold grudges ist that she sees the fights and hurt feelings as single dots and doesn‘t connect the dots with a line. she can still feel and relate to the pain from each single dot, but she doesn‘t draw a line from one dot to the next and to the present.